Inner Child Healing for Lasting Love

Inner Child Healing for Lasting Love

Love is often seen as the destination, but what if the real journey begins within?

In this episode of Mirror Talk: Soulful Conversations, I sit with Sasha Quince. Her life story is both a mirror and a map. Sasha was once marked by loss, betrayal, and anxious attachment. She has transformed her wounds into wisdom. Now, she guides others as a love coach and relationship mentor.

Our conversation unfolds like a tender exploration of the human heart—its pain, its resilience, and its infinite capacity to heal.

We talk about the power of inner child healing, a practice that Sasha describes as “meeting yourself with compassion.” Childhood wounds often remain unhealed. They echo in our adult relationships. These wounds shape how we love. They influence how we fear and push others away. Sasha shares how she faced her own buried pain—especially as motherhood brought old traumas to the surface.

We also explore the role of the nervous system in love. We discuss the importance of setting boundaries. We examine the law of reflection—how our partners often mirror the very truths we most need to see in ourselves.

The most moving part of our conversation is how Sasha redefines grief. She invites us to let grief be a teacher. We should not see it as a door that closes the heart. It can guide us toward a deeper, more expansive love.

This episode is not just about relationships with others—it’s about the relationship we cultivate with ourselves. Because, as Sasha beautifully reminds us: “Nobody’s coming to save you. Healing begins with you.”

If you’ve ever found yourself sabotaging love, you relate to Sasha’s story. If you have ever longed for love, or grieved its absence, Sasha’s story will meet you where you are. It will remind you that healing and lasting love are possible.

👉 Listen now and begin your own journey of healing through love.

🔑 Key Takeaways

  • Healing begins with self-acceptance and self-validation.
  • Childhood experiences deeply influence our attachment styles.
  • Motherhood can awaken buried traumas—and the courage to heal.
  • Inner child work is about re-parenting with compassion and validation.
  • Breaking negative patterns requires accountability and self-awareness.
  • Grief can expand the heart when we allow it to guide us.
  • The law of reflection reveals hidden truths about ourselves through others.
  • Setting boundaries is an act of self-love and emotional health.

Memorable Quotes

  • “You have to meet yourself where you’re at.”
  • “Nobody’s coming to save you.”
  • “Emotion is energy in motion.”
  • “Grief can open the heart, not just close it.”

👩‍💻 Guest Bio

Sasha Quince is a love coach and relationship mentor. She has over 15 years of experience. Sasha guides women through emotional healing and personal transformation. Sasha overcame betrayal, loss, and anxious attachment. She turned her journey into a mission to help others. Her goal is to create healthy, lasting love. She combines inner child healing, parts work (IFS), mindset coaching, and somatic tools uniquely. Through these techniques, she empowers women to regulate their nervous systems. She helps them break free from toxic cycles. With self-awareness and courage, they step into love.

She is also the host of the Heal You, Heal Your Relationships podcast. She shares raw and transformative conversations about healing, love, and conscious connection.

Connect with Sasha Quince:
Instagram → @sashaquincelovecoach

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How Spencer Vann Built an 8-Figure Real Estate Business at 24 Through Surplus Funds Mirror Talk: Soulful Conversations

In this episode of Mirror Talk: Soulful Conversations, we sit down with Spencer Vann, the Co-Founder and CEO of SurplusFund.com, to explore how he built an 8-figure company at just 24 years old.Spencer shares the powerful turning point that changed the direction of his life. After shattering his ankle at 15 and losing his identity as a basketball player, he found himself in a season of pain, recovery, and deep reflection. What could have broken him became the beginning of a new path. During those months, he immersed himself in business and real estate, laying the foundation for the entrepreneurial journey that would later transform his life.In this conversation, Spencer explains the world of surplus funds, a little-known real estate niche that allows people to create income by helping others recover money they may not even know belongs to them. He also opens up about discipline, consistency, daily habits, entrepreneurship, failure, persistence, and the mindset required to succeed in business long term.This episode is for anyone who wants to build wealth, think differently, and learn how to turn setbacks into opportunities.In this episode, you will learn:How Spencer Vann went from injury and uncertainty to building an 8-figure businessWhat surplus funds are and how this real estate niche worksHow to start in the surplus funds businessWhy daily routines and personal discipline shape long-term successHow to get more deals and build trust in businessThe biggest misconceptions people have about moneyWhat entrepreneurs must understand about patience, persistence, and responsibilityTimestamps:00:00 Introduction to Spencer Vann and his journey01:02 How a shattered ankle changed Spencer’s life02:27 Turning pain into purpose through real estate03:57 What surplus funds are and how they work05:30 How to start finding surplus fund opportunities06:58 Building trust and closing deals08:01 The FCC method: Find, Connect, Collect09:16 Overcoming objections and standing out10:38 How Spencer gets more deals in business11:15 Why consistency matters more than hype12:28 Lessons on entrepreneurship and problem-solving13:50 Marketing and customer acquisition strategies14:46 Systems, process, and avoiding shiny object syndrome16:03 How daily habits influence success17:39 The power of patience and long-term execution18:47 Why entrepreneurship requires full commitment20:24 The connection between sports and business performance21:39 Inside Surplus Fund Academy23:45 Coaching, application process, and who it is for24:57 Pain of discipline versus regret26:09 Best ways to connect with SpencerResources and Links:Website: https://www.surplusfund.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spencerjvann/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/spencerjvannYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SpencerJVann/Connect with Mirror Talk:Website: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/Ask Mirror Talk: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/ask-mirror-talk/If this episode spoke to you, subscribe to Mirror Talk: Soulful Conversations, share it with someone building a dream, and leave a rating or review. Your support helps more people discover conversations that inspire clarity, growth, and transformation.Ask what is on your heart. Mirror Talk will reflect back what may help you see more clearly. Try it here: ⁠https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/ask-mirror-talk/⁠Thank you for joining me on this MIRROR TALK podcast journey. Please subscribe to any platform and remember to leave a review and rating.Stay connected: ⁠https://linktr.ee/mirrortalkpodcast⁠ More inspiring episodes and show notes are here: ⁠https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/podcast-episodes/⁠ Your opinions, thoughts, suggestions, and comments are important to us. Please share them here: ⁠https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/your-opinion-matters/⁠ Could you support us by becoming a Patreon? Please consider subscribing to one or more of our offerings at ⁠http://patreon.com/MirrorTalk⁠ 
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