Love is often seen as the destination, but what if the real journey begins within?
In this episode of Mirror Talk: Soulful Conversations, I sit with Sasha Quince. Her life story is both a mirror and a map. Sasha was once marked by loss, betrayal, and anxious attachment. She has transformed her wounds into wisdom. Now, she guides others as a love coach and relationship mentor.
Our conversation unfolds like a tender exploration of the human heart—its pain, its resilience, and its infinite capacity to heal.
We talk about the power of inner child healing, a practice that Sasha describes as “meeting yourself with compassion.” Childhood wounds often remain unhealed. They echo in our adult relationships. These wounds shape how we love. They influence how we fear and push others away. Sasha shares how she faced her own buried pain—especially as motherhood brought old traumas to the surface.
We also explore the role of the nervous system in love. We discuss the importance of setting boundaries. We examine the law of reflection—how our partners often mirror the very truths we most need to see in ourselves.
The most moving part of our conversation is how Sasha redefines grief. She invites us to let grief be a teacher. We should not see it as a door that closes the heart. It can guide us toward a deeper, more expansive love.
This episode is not just about relationships with others—it’s about the relationship we cultivate with ourselves. Because, as Sasha beautifully reminds us: “Nobody’s coming to save you. Healing begins with you.”
If you’ve ever found yourself sabotaging love, you relate to Sasha’s story. If you have ever longed for love, or grieved its absence, Sasha’s story will meet you where you are. It will remind you that healing and lasting love are possible.
👉 Listen now and begin your own journey of healing through love.
🔑 Key Takeaways
- Healing begins with self-acceptance and self-validation.
- Childhood experiences deeply influence our attachment styles.
- Motherhood can awaken buried traumas—and the courage to heal.
- Inner child work is about re-parenting with compassion and validation.
- Breaking negative patterns requires accountability and self-awareness.
- Grief can expand the heart when we allow it to guide us.
- The law of reflection reveals hidden truths about ourselves through others.
- Setting boundaries is an act of self-love and emotional health.
✨ Memorable Quotes
- “You have to meet yourself where you’re at.”
- “Nobody’s coming to save you.”
- “Emotion is energy in motion.”
- “Grief can open the heart, not just close it.”
👩💻 Guest Bio
Sasha Quince is a love coach and relationship mentor. She has over 15 years of experience. Sasha guides women through emotional healing and personal transformation. Sasha overcame betrayal, loss, and anxious attachment. She turned her journey into a mission to help others. Her goal is to create healthy, lasting love. She combines inner child healing, parts work (IFS), mindset coaching, and somatic tools uniquely. Through these techniques, she empowers women to regulate their nervous systems. She helps them break free from toxic cycles. With self-awareness and courage, they step into love.
She is also the host of the Heal You, Heal Your Relationships podcast. She shares raw and transformative conversations about healing, love, and conscious connection.
Connect with Sasha Quince:
Instagram → @sashaquincelovecoach

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