Closed Doors: When Life Says No… and Why That Might Be Grace

Closed doors are not always signs of failure — they can be sacred signs of favour and ways of rerouting us toward our true path.

There are moments in life when everything we hoped for slips through our fingers.
The job we prayed for didn’t come.
The person we loved disappears.
The business crumbles.
The dream dies quietly.

Sasha Quince on Inner Child Healing & Secure Love Mirror Talk: Soulful Conversations

What does it truly mean to heal through love? In this heart-opening episode of Mirror Talk: Soulful Conversations, Tobi sits down with Sasha Quince, a love coach, relationship mentor, and host of the Heal You, Heal Your Relationships podcast. With over 15 years of experience and a personal journey through loss, betrayal, and anxious attachment, Sasha shares how she turned her wounds into wisdom and her pain into purpose.Together, we explore:✨ How childhood experiences shape our adult relationships✨ The courage it takes to face buried wounds through motherhood✨ What it means to meet your inner child with compassion✨ How to regulate your nervous system in moments of overwhelm✨ Why grief can be a teacher and not a barrier to love✨ The law of reflection in relationships—and the mirrors that transform us✨ How to break cycles of sabotage and reclaim emotional powerThis soulful conversation is a reminder that healing is not only possible—it’s the very path to experiencing the love we are meant to have.⏱ Episode Chapters00:00 – Introduction to Sasha Quince02:48 – The Power of Validation in Childhood05:44 – Recognizing and Breaking Patterns08:34 – Facing Demons through Shadow Work11:28 – Redefining Love and Self-Acceptance14:17 – Childhood Trauma & Adult Relationships17:26 – Healing Awakens through Motherhood20:16 – Inner Child Healing with Compassion24:41 – The Courage to Break Free from Cycles29:00 – Beyond the Victim Mentality33:05 – The Law of Reflection in Relationships35:31 – The Art of Boundaries in Love44:32 – A Soul Message for Listeners👩‍💻 Guest BioSasha Quince is a love coach and relationship mentor with over 15 years of experience guiding women through emotional healing and personal transformation. After overcoming betrayal, loss, and anxious attachment, Sasha turned her journey into a mission to help others create healthy, lasting love. Through a unique blend of inner child healing, parts work (IFS), mindset coaching, and somatic tools, she empowers women to regulate their nervous systems, break free from toxic cycles, and step into love with self-awareness and courage.She is also the host of the Heal You, Heal Your Relationships podcast, where she shares raw, transformative conversations about healing, love, and conscious connection.Connect with Sasha Quince:Instagram → @sashaquincelovecoachCONFESSIONS is now available: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/confessions-book/ Thank you for joining me on this MIRROR TALK podcast journey. Please subscribe to any platform and remember to leave a review and rating.Stay connected: https://linktr.ee/mirrortalkpodcast More inspiring episodes and show notes are here: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/podcast-episodes/ Your opinions, thoughts, suggestions, and comments are important to us. Share them here: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/your-opinion-matters/ Support us by becoming a Patron. Please consider subscribing to one or more of our offerings at http://patreon.com/MirrorTalk All proceeds will help enhance the quality of our work and outreach, enabling us to serve you better.We use and trust these podcasting tools, software, and gear. We’ve partnered with amazing platforms to give our Mirror Talk community exclusive deals and discounts: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/mirror-talks-recommended-podcasting-tools-exclusive-discounts/ 
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And in the aftermath, we sit in silence.
That deep, echoing silence of a closed door.

It’s painful. Confusing. Sometimes humiliating.
We begin to ask the question that haunts so many of us: “Why me?”

But what if — just what if — that closed door was not the end, but the beginning?
What if life’s “no” was an act of divine grace?

Rejection, ghosting, and loss can feel like abandonment. But more often than not, they are redirections.

  • That person who ghosted you? They were never equipped to hold the weight of your heart.
  • That failed project? It taught you resilience, creativity, and who you truly are when things fall apart.
  • That dream that didn’t materialise? It created space for a new vision, one more aligned with your soul.

Sometimes, it takes a slammed door to remind us that we were trying to enter a room we outgrew.

In the moment, you may not see the blessing. It takes distance. It takes healing.

But one day, you’ll look back and whisper, “Thank you, life… for not giving me what I thought I wanted.”

So if you’re facing a closed door today, breathe.
Mourn what was.
But then… lift your head.

Because somewhere down the hall, a better door is slowly swinging open.

And this time — it’s yours.

CONFESSIONS is now available: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/confessions-book/ 

Thank you for joining me on this MIRROR TALK podcast journey. Please subscribe on any platform and remember to leave a review and rating.

Stay connected: https://linktr.ee/mirrortalkpodcast 

More inspiring episodes and show notes are here: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/podcast-episodes/ 

Your opinions, thoughts, suggestions, and comments are important to us. Share them here: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/your-opinion-matters/ 

Support us by becoming a Patron. Please consider subscribing to one or more of our offerings at http://patreon.com/MirrorTalk 

All proceeds will help improve the quality of our work and outreach, so we can serve you better.

We use and trust these podcasting tools, software, and gear. We’ve partnered with amazing platforms to give our Mirror Talk community exclusive deals and discounts: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/mirror-talks-recommended-podcasting-tools-exclusive-discounts/ 

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