Anxiety for Sale

Anxiety often creeps in like a shadow at dusk—quiet, unnoticed, until it wraps around everything. For many of us, it’s not just a passing worry. It’s a persistent undercurrent: the what-ifs, the tight chest, the overplanning, the fear of not being enough or doing enough.

But what if we could trade it in?


What if anxiety, like any other burden, could be offered up—and exchanged for something better?

This is the heart of a sacred exchange offered to us in scripture.

🌿 The Divine Invitation

In Isaiah 61:3, we are given a beautiful promise:

“…to bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of joy instead of mourning, and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair.”

This is not poetic fluff.


This is the divine economy of heaven: you give your pain, and God gives peace. You bring ashes, and He hands you beauty. You surrender anxiety—and receive joy.

In the episode Anxiety for Sale, I reflect deeply on this process. And not just as a spiritual idea, but as a lived invitation—daily, hourly, moment-by-moment.

🧠 Why Anxiety Clings So Tightly

Anxiety thrives in environments of control, perfectionism, and spiritual disconnection. It tells us:

  • “You’re not safe.”
  • “You have to handle everything alone.”
  • “Something bad is going to happen.”

These thoughts don’t just exhaust us—they isolate us.

But here’s the truth anxiety hides from you:
You were never meant to carry this alone.

✝️ The Peace the World Cannot Give

In John 14:27, Jesus says:

“Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.”

Worldly peace is based on control and outcomes.
Christ’s peace is rooted in presence and trust. It exists even when circumstances don’t change—because it lives deeper than the storm.

💛 The Soul Practice: The Exchange Table

In the episode, I guide listeners through a powerful visualization:

You stand at a spiritual market, holding a box full of your worries.
You step up to a table where God waits—not with judgment, but compassion.
You place your box down—and He hands you peace. Stillness. Joy. Hope.

This practice isn’t just imagination. It’s a reflection of Matthew 11:28-30:

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.”

Every day you wake up anxious is another opportunity to make the trade again.

🌤️ How to Live from the Trade

Here’s what “trading anxiety” looks like in everyday life:

  • Pausing before a meeting and saying, “God, I give You this fear.”
  • Choosing rest over endless productivity
  • Releasing what you cannot control
  • Trusting God’s pace when your timeline feels delayed
  • Meditating on scripture when your mind wants to spiral

Healing isn’t always instant. But the invitation to peace is always present.

💬 Final Word: You Are Not Your Anxiety

You are not broken. You are not alone.
You are a soul deeply seen by a God who invites you to let go.

Anxiety may visit, but it doesn’t get to stay.
Not when peace is being offered—freely, abundantly, eternally.

So today, make the trade.
Put your anxiety up for sale—
and let joy rush in.

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In this deeply heartfelt and enlightening episode of Mirror Talk: Soulful Conversations, host Tobi sits down with relationship expert and thought leader Keith Spurgin to unravel one of the most pressing questions of our time:"Why are we more technologically connected than ever, but more emotionally and relationally disconnected?"Together, they explore the soulful art of building meaningful relationships in an age of noise, distraction, and isolation. Keith opens up about his own life lessons from balancing leadership, family, and faith, and offers practical, vulnerable, and timeless advice on how to move from feeling unknown to truly being known in your most important connections.From healing broken trust to navigating conflict and embracing feedback in relationships, this episode is a compass for anyone yearning for depth, authenticity, and life-giving relationships.🌱 What You'll LearnThe surprising reason why so many people feel lonely in a connected worldHow vulnerability opens the door to real, lasting love and friendshipPractical steps to rebuild trust when it’s been brokenHow leaders can remain authentic in a cynical worldNavigating feedback, conflict, and emotional honesty in relationshipsHow to move from surface-level relationships to deep soul connectionsWhy risking your heart is worth it every time🧠 Guest Spotlight: Keith SpurginKeith Spurgin is a seasoned relationship coach, pastor, and author of "Unknown: Finding Connection in a Disconnected World." His work centres around helping people—especially leaders—build honest, vibrant, and meaningful relationships. Having personally experienced the struggles of juggling leadership, work, and family, Keith offers wisdom forged in real-life experience.🔗 Learn more: growthresourcing.org🔥 Soundbites"You have to risk your heart.""Admitting mistakes builds trust.""Life is all about connection."⏱️ Episode Chapters00:00 – Welcome & Introduction to Keith Spurgin02:26 – Life Lessons in Leadership & Relationships05:57 – The Fragility & Power of Trust11:21 – Disconnection in a Hyperconnected Age16:47 – The Courage to Be Vulnerable19:18 – Healing from Heartbreak & Emotional Wounds23:55 – Going Beyond Surface-Level Relationships29:44 – Reigniting Stagnant Relationships37:30 – Keith’s Vision for a More Connected World🙌 Take Action✅ Share this episode with someone feeling stuck or unseen in their relationships✅ Reflect on one area in your life where vulnerability could lead to healing✅ Start building your circle—one honest conversation at a time🎧 Listen Now🔗 Available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts & more🔁 Subscribe, rate, and leave a review to support more soulful conversations!CONFESSIONS is now available: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/confessions-book/Thank you for joining me on this MIRROR TALK podcast journey. Kindly subscribe to any platform. Please do not forget to leave a review and rating.Let us stay connected: ⁠https://linktr.ee/mirrortalkpodcast⁠ More inspiring episodes and show notes are here: ⁠https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/podcast-episodes/⁠⁠Your opinions, thoughts, suggestions and comments matter to us. Share them here: ⁠https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/your-opinion-matters/⁠Invest in us by becoming a Patreon. Please support us by subscribing to one or more of the offerings that we have available at ⁠http://patreon.com/MirrorTalk⁠ All proceeds will improve the quality of our work and outreach. To serve you better. Try out ElevenLabs for free: https://try.elevenlabs.io/8oveg6dyus8a 
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