When We Were Young: The Fire, the Falls, and the Becoming

When We Were Young: The Fire, the Falls, and the Becoming
Lessons from Lust, Fire & the Foolishness of Youth

There’s something beautiful and brutal about youth. It’s when we burn brightest, fall hardest, and learn slowest.

We say yes to things that weren’t meant for us. We love people who weren’t ready to be loved. We chase dreams that look good on paper but hollow out our souls.

But this isn’t a post to shame our past. It’s a post to bless it.

To say: Thank you, younger me. For trying. For risking. For feeling.

Whether we see ourselves in public figures who spiralled and came back, or in ancient quotes that remind us we are always becoming, there is something powerful about reflecting without regret.

So today, pause. Remember. Reflect.

And know:
The once reckless one is now rooted.
The one who once ran is now rising.
And the one who once broke… is now building.

When we were young, we burned.
Now we become light.


So how do we rise from who we were?

  1. Compassion for your younger self.
    Write them a letter. They weren’t weak. They were just trying to feel alive.
  2. Wisdom from the wreckage.
    Every heartbreak, every misstep — mined with intention, becomes gold.
  3. Share your story.
    The world needs people who say, “I’ve been there. And I’m still becoming.”

We were once young — yes.
But we’re not that person anymore.
We’ve earned our wrinkles, our quiet, our depth.

And as the poet Rumi wrote:

“Try not to resist the changes that come your way. Instead, let life live through you.”

Let us not curse our past. Let us bless it — for shaping us into beings who now move slower, love deeper, and speak softer.

You are not your mistake.
You are the masterpiece unfolding.

Until next time — keep reflecting, keep healing, keep growing.
You are not alone.



6293089 1709235152984 971004736e031

Intentional Living and Lifestyle Stewardship: How to Become an Authorised Wealth Distributor with Larry O’Nan Mirror Talk: Soulful Conversations

What if stewardship is not about money at all but about how you live?In this deeply moving episode of Mirror Talk: Soulful Conversations, Tobi sits down with Larry O’Nan, a global leader in faith-based leadership and the author of Intentional Living and Giving. With more than five decades of experience empowering Christian leaders worldwide, Larry reveals the spiritual shift that changed everything for him in 1972 and why it still matters today.This conversation goes far beyond fundraising. It explores lifestyle stewardship, grief, generosity, risk, and what it truly means to become an Authorised Wealth Distributor in a world driven by fear and scarcity.Larry shares how losing his wife of 45 years reshaped his understanding of purpose, how biblical stewardship is woven throughout Scripture, and why many believers unknowingly live beneath their spiritual inheritance.This episode is a wake-up call for anyone who feels stuck, sidelined, or disconnected from their deeper calling.You were not born again to survive.You were born again to thrive.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Intentional Living07:19 Heartbreak and Resilience07:43 The Turning Point in 197221:51 Understanding Lifestyle Stewardship33:21 Becoming an Authorised Wealth Distributor38:01 Navigating Life's Curves and Disappointments42:36 The Spirit of Generosity and Wealth Distribution48:11 Making Prudent Stewardship Decisions54:34 Becoming an Authorised Wealth DistributorWhat You Will Discover in This Episode• Why intentional living is the foundation of a fulfilled life• How lifestyle stewardship changes the way you see money, time, and purpose• The difference between prosperity thinking and biblical stewardship• How grief can become a doorway into deeper calling• What it means to be an Authorised Wealth Distributor• How generosity unlocks freedom and joy• Why fear and confusion keep so many believers trapped• How to align your faith with practical daily stewardshipPowerful Quotes“Pain is gold.”“Life is not lived in Disneyland.”“I want to bless somebody else.”“You were born again to thrive.”About Larry O’NanLarry O’Nan is a globally respected leader in intentional living and lifestyle stewardship. With more than 50 years of experience serving Christian ministries around the world, he has helped redefine how faith-based organisations understand generosity, leadership, and spiritual responsibility.He is the author of Intentional Living and Giving and the creator of the Authorised Wealth Distributor framework, helping believers see themselves not as owners, but as stewards entrusted with God’s resources.Website: https://larryonan.comYour transformation begins the moment you decide to look within.Let this book walk with you.👇 Get your copy:US/Intl: https://amzn.to/3Kk5wh4EU: https://amzn.to/48sFnG6Listen on your favourite podcast platform: ⁠https://lnkfi.re/mirrortalk⁠Don't forget to subscribe, rate, share, and comment. Thank you!CONFESSIONS is now available: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/confessions-book/ Thank you for joining me on this MIRROR TALK podcast journey. Please subscribe to any platform and remember to leave a review and rating.Stay connected: https://linktr.ee/mirrortalkpodcast More inspiring episodes and show notes are here: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/podcast-episodes/ Your opinions, thoughts, suggestions, and comments are important to us. Please share them here: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/your-opinion-matters/ Could you support us by becoming a Patreon? Please consider subscribing to one or more of our offerings at http://patreon.com/MirrorTalk All proceeds will help enhance the quality of our work and outreach, enabling us to serve you better.We use and trust these podcasting tools, software, and gear. We’ve partnered with amazing platforms to give our Mirror Talk community exclusive deals and discounts: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/best-podcasting-tools/
  1. Intentional Living and Lifestyle Stewardship: How to Become an Authorised Wealth Distributor with Larry O’Nan
  2. Healing the Body by Awakening the Kingdom Within with Dr Moshe Daniel Block
  3. Know Yourself to Know God: Enneagram, Identity, and Christian Healing with Heath Davis Havlick
  4. Living the Life Your Soul Intended: Soul Truths on Healing, Purpose, Faith, and Becoming
  5. Joy Is the Medicine: How Play, Purpose, and Presence Heal the Soul with Amy Dickens

CONFESSIONS is now available: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/confessions-book/ 

Thank you for joining me on this MIRROR TALK podcast journey. Please subscribe to any platform and remember to leave a review and rating.

Stay connected: https://linktr.ee/mirrortalkpodcast 

More inspiring episodes and show notes are here: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/podcast-episodes/ 

Your opinions, thoughts, suggestions, and comments are important to us. Share them here: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/your-opinion-matters/ 

Could you support us by becoming a Patreon? Please consider subscribing to one or more of our offerings at http://patreon.com/MirrorTalk 

All proceeds will help enhance the quality of our work and outreach, enabling us to serve you better.

We use and trust these podcasting tools, software, and gear. We’ve partnered with amazing platforms to give our Mirror Talk community exclusive deals and discounts: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/mirror-talks-recommended-podcasting-tools-exclusive-discounts/ 

Scroll to Top