When We Were Young: The Fire, the Falls, and the Becoming

Lessons from Lust, Fire & the Foolishness of Youth

There’s something beautiful and brutal about youth. It’s when we burn brightest, fall hardest, and learn slowest.

We say yes to things that weren’t meant for us. We love people who weren’t ready to be loved. We chase dreams that look good on paper but hollow out our souls.

But this isn’t a post to shame our past. It’s a post to bless it.

To say: Thank you, younger me. For trying. For risking. For feeling.

Whether we see ourselves in public figures who spiralled and came back, or in ancient quotes that remind us we are always becoming, there is something powerful about reflecting without regret.

So today, pause. Remember. Reflect.

And know:
The once reckless one is now rooted.
The one who once ran is now rising.
And the one who once broke… is now building.

When we were young, we burned.
Now we become light.


So how do we rise from who we were?

  1. Compassion for your younger self.
    Write them a letter. They weren’t weak. They were just trying to feel alive.
  2. Wisdom from the wreckage.
    Every heartbreak, every misstep — mined with intention, becomes gold.
  3. Share your story.
    The world needs people who say, “I’ve been there. And I’m still becoming.”

We were once young — yes.
But we’re not that person anymore.
We’ve earned our wrinkles, our quiet, our depth.

And as the poet Rumi wrote:

“Try not to resist the changes that come your way. Instead, let life live through you.”

Let us not curse our past. Let us bless it — for shaping us into beings who now move slower, love deeper, and speak softer.

You are not your mistake.
You are the masterpiece unfolding.

Until next time — keep reflecting, keep healing, keep growing.
You are not alone.



Awakening Through Curiosity, Chaos and Stillness with Devon Kerns Mirror Talk: Soulful Conversations

Welcome back to Mirror Talk: Soulful Conversations. In this episode, Tobi sits with transformational catalyst and visionary leader Devon Kerns, known widely as the King of Curiosity, Chaos and Stillness. With a remarkable journey shaped by entrepreneurship, ancient wisdom, plant medicine, emotional intelligence and personal loss, Devon carries a presence that both awakens and disarms.Together they explore:• How Devon’s Zen rooted quote became the guiding philosophy of his life• The grief of losing his father and how heartbreak became initiation• Curiosity, chaos and stillness as a powerful creation model for leaders• Why AI may be humanity’s greatest evolutionary ally• How to build businesses that heal people, land and money• The spiritual role psychedelics have played in his leadership journey• Presence as the new productivity and the art of simply being• Conscious parenting in a world where technology, soul and legacy meet• The soul aligned questions Devon asks himself every day• A message for anyone standing at the edge of transformationChapters00:00 Introduction to Transformation and Curiosity02:41 The Importance of Relationships and Love05:16 Overcoming Excuses and Embracing Action07:59 The Value of the Journey10:28 Changing Society's Perspective on Life13:33 Embracing Humanity and Spirituality16:06 The Impact of Grief and Loss21:19 Finding Value in Existence24:59 Chaos, Stillness, and Curiosity in Life31:24 The Journey of Manifestation32:22 Embracing Chaos and Finding Stillness33:45 Curiosity as a Tool for Creation35:42 Creating from Chaos: A Practical Approach36:08 Rootedness and Connection to Mother Earth40:45 The Importance of Emotional Intelligence in Leadership47:16 Raising Emotionally Intelligent Children58:32 Finding Presence in ChaosThis is a conversation that invites you to slow down, breathe and see your life with new eyes. If you have been craving a deeper path, a more conscious way of leading or a more grounded experience of being human, Devon’s wisdom will speak directly to your soul.Connect with Devon:Website: www.devonkkerns.comWatch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/RUOv3jiKPcs Your transformation begins the moment you decide to look within.Let this book walk with you.👇 Get your copy:US/Intl: https://amzn.to/3Kk5wh4EU: https://amzn.to/48sFnG6Listen on your favourite podcast platform: ⁠https://lnkfi.re/mirrortalk⁠Don't forget to subscribe, rate, share, and comment. Thank you!CONFESSIONS is now available: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/confessions-book/ Thank you for joining me on this MIRROR TALK podcast journey. Please subscribe to any platform and remember to leave a review and rating.Stay connected: https://linktr.ee/mirrortalkpodcast More inspiring episodes and show notes are here: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/podcast-episodes/ Your opinions, thoughts, suggestions, and comments are important to us. Please share them here: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/your-opinion-matters/ Could you support us by becoming a Patreon? Please consider subscribing to one or more of our offerings at http://patreon.com/MirrorTalk All proceeds will help enhance the quality of our work and outreach, enabling us to serve you better.We use and trust these podcasting tools, software, and gear. We’ve partnered with amazing platforms to give our Mirror Talk community exclusive deals and discounts: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/mirror-talks-recommended-podcasting-tools-exclusive-discounts/ 
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  4. Dark Horse: Letting Go of the Baggage We Carry
  5. Releasing Panic Attacks and Anxiety for Good with John Graham

CONFESSIONS is now available: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/confessions-book/ 

Thank you for joining me on this MIRROR TALK podcast journey. Please subscribe to any platform and remember to leave a review and rating.

Stay connected: https://linktr.ee/mirrortalkpodcast 

More inspiring episodes and show notes are here: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/podcast-episodes/ 

Your opinions, thoughts, suggestions, and comments are important to us. Share them here: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/your-opinion-matters/ 

Could you support us by becoming a Patreon? Please consider subscribing to one or more of our offerings at http://patreon.com/MirrorTalk 

All proceeds will help enhance the quality of our work and outreach, enabling us to serve you better.

We use and trust these podcasting tools, software, and gear. We’ve partnered with amazing platforms to give our Mirror Talk community exclusive deals and discounts: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/mirror-talks-recommended-podcasting-tools-exclusive-discounts/ 

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