When We Were Young: The Fire, the Falls, and the Becoming

When We Were Young: The Fire, the Falls, and the Becoming
Lessons from Lust, Fire & the Foolishness of Youth

There’s something beautiful and brutal about youth. It’s when we burn brightest, fall hardest, and learn slowest.

We say yes to things that weren’t meant for us. We love people who weren’t ready to be loved. We chase dreams that look good on paper but hollow out our souls.

But this isn’t a post to shame our past. It’s a post to bless it.

To say: Thank you, younger me. For trying. For risking. For feeling.

Whether we see ourselves in public figures who spiralled and came back, or in ancient quotes that remind us we are always becoming, there is something powerful about reflecting without regret.

So today, pause. Remember. Reflect.

And know:
The once reckless one is now rooted.
The one who once ran is now rising.
And the one who once broke… is now building.

When we were young, we burned.
Now we become light.


So how do we rise from who we were?

  1. Compassion for your younger self.
    Write them a letter. They weren’t weak. They were just trying to feel alive.
  2. Wisdom from the wreckage.
    Every heartbreak, every misstep — mined with intention, becomes gold.
  3. Share your story.
    The world needs people who say, “I’ve been there. And I’m still becoming.”

We were once young — yes.
But we’re not that person anymore.
We’ve earned our wrinkles, our quiet, our depth.

And as the poet Rumi wrote:

“Try not to resist the changes that come your way. Instead, let life live through you.”

Let us not curse our past. Let us bless it — for shaping us into beings who now move slower, love deeper, and speak softer.

You are not your mistake.
You are the masterpiece unfolding.

Until next time — keep reflecting, keep healing, keep growing.
You are not alone.



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Financial Alignment Over Success: Julie Murphy on Emotional Wellness, Money Mindset, and the PACT Method Mirror Talk: Soulful Conversations

In this deeply soulful episode of Mirror Talk: Soulful Conversations, we are joined by financial planner and emotional wellness advocate Julie Murphy, a money behaviour expert with nearly 30 years of experience helping high-achieving women and men align their wealth with their inner truth.Julie has managed over half a billion dollars in assets, yet what truly sets her apart is her understanding that financial success without alignment leads to burnout, disconnection, and quiet dissatisfaction. Through her transformational PACT Method (Picture, Accept, Commit, Take Action), Julie helps people break free from subconscious money patterns and build wealth that feels like freedom, not pressure.In this conversation, we explore how money mirrors the mind, how fear and conditioning shape our financial decisions, and how emotional wellness is the missing link in most wealth strategies. Julie also shares how spirituality, intuition, and self-worth play a central role in creating financial sovereignty.This episode is for you if you have achieved success on paper but feel something is missing inside.In this episode, you will learn:Why alignment matters more than traditional successHow the PACT Method creates emotional and financial clarityThe most common subconscious money patterns keeping people stuckHow burnout and perfectionism show up in financial behaviourHow spirituality and energy influence wealth creationWhy self-worth is the real foundation of financial freedomChapters00:00 Introduction to Financial Alignment and Wellness06:39 The Importance of Inner Truth in Financial Success13:49 Understanding the PACT Method for Financial Growth22:04 Shifting from Fear to Authentic Financial Decisions25:33 Embracing Authenticity26:46 Awakening Your Wealth: The PACT Method31:55 Finding Harmony Over Hustle34:15 Reframing Your Money Story37:02 The Spirituality of Financial Success39:36 Discovering Your True Self43:20 Empowerment and Self-DiscoveryGuest: Julie MurphyFinancial Planner and Emotional Wellness AdvocateWebsite: juliemurphy.comInstagram: @awakenwithjulieYour transformation begins the moment you decide to look within.Let this book walk with you.👇 Get your copy:US/Intl: https://amzn.to/3Kk5wh4EU: https://amzn.to/48sFnG6Listen on your favourite podcast platform: ⁠https://lnkfi.re/mirrortalk⁠Don't forget to subscribe, rate, share, and comment. Thank you!CONFESSIONS is now available: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/confessions-book/ Thank you for joining me on this MIRROR TALK podcast journey. Please subscribe to any platform and remember to leave a review and rating.Stay connected: https://linktr.ee/mirrortalkpodcast More inspiring episodes and show notes are here: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/podcast-episodes/ Your opinions, thoughts, suggestions, and comments are important to us. Please share them here: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/your-opinion-matters/ Could you support us by becoming a Patreon? Please consider subscribing to one or more of our offerings at http://patreon.com/MirrorTalk All proceeds will help enhance the quality of our work and outreach, enabling us to serve you better.We use and trust these podcasting tools, software, and gear. We’ve partnered with amazing platforms to give our Mirror Talk community exclusive deals and discounts: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/best-podcasting-tools/
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Stay connected: https://linktr.ee/mirrortalkpodcast 

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