What Surviving Cancer Taught Me About Living Fully – Edward Miskie’s Transformational Journey

What Surviving Cancer Taught Me About Living Fully – Edward Miskie's Transformational Journey

Ten years ago, Edward Miskie wasn’t planning to write a book. He wasn’t thinking about producing musicals or reflecting on life’s messiness with poetic clarity. He was just trying to stay alive.

Diagnosed in his twenties with a rare, aggressive cancer, Edward’s world stopped mid-scene—just as his Broadway dreams were finding centre stage. What followed wasn’t just a health crisis. It was a full-blown identity collapse, tangled in heartbreak, alcohol, creative blocks, and unanswered questions about who he was without the life he’d built.

“I didn’t just lose hair and weight,” Edward shared on Mirror Talk. “I lost myself.

His new memoir, Cancer, Musical Theatre, & Other Chronic Illnesses, is part fever dream, part therapy, part laugh-out-loud truth bomb. Through it—and in our conversation—Edward reminds us that surviving cancer isn’t just about beating the disease. It’s about confronting what’s been stripped away and daring to piece together a self you never expected to meet.

🧬 The Unexpected Diagnosis

Imagine being in your prime—full of ambition, charisma, and dreams—and then suddenly… cancer. Rare. Aggressive. Unrelenting.

Edward didn’t know what hit him. He describes the diagnosis as a surreal musical theatre number, complete with clumsy choreography and flat notes. Chemo came fast. So did the fear, the isolation, and the messy cocktail of emotions that no one prepares you for.

💔 Sex, Chemo, and Self-Erosion

One of the boldest chapters of Edward’s story is his candour about sex, alcohol, and intimacy during and after cancer.

“No one talks about what happens to you—your sexuality, your desires, your sense of worth—when your body becomes a battleground,” he said.

He describes the experience as being “divorced from himself,” a concept so haunting and relatable that it deserves its own sermon. Cancer stole more than just cells—it rewrote how he saw himself in the mirror.

🎭 The Healing Power of Storytelling

Edward didn’t stop at survival. He turned his story into art.

From producing shows to releasing a dance-pop album (Renaissancing), to now creating a musical episodic series based on his memoir, Edward transformed pain into purpose. His humor is his sword. His transparency, his shield.

💡 Lessons from the Edge of Life

Here are a few things cancer taught Edward:

  • Self-advocacy is non-negotiable. Speak up. Fight for your body, your sanity, your life.
  • You can’t go back. You’re not who you were before, and that’s okay. Embrace the new.
  • Joy is a medicine. Create it. Chase it. Let it light your darkest days.
  • Healing isn’t linear. Some days you dance. Some days you cry. It all belongs.
  • You’re allowed to laugh. Even when life feels like hell, humour helps you breathe again.

💬 For Anyone Facing Cancer…

Edward offers this simple but soul-shaking message:

“You don’t have to be strong all the time. But you do have to be you. Whoever that becomes.”

Whether you’re in treatment, in remission, or picking up the pieces post-diagnosis, know this: You are not alone. You are allowed to evolve. And you’re more than your illness.

🌱 Final Words: Keep Going, Even If It’s a Different Horse

In Edward’s words, “Get back on the horse—even if it’s a different horse.”

Sometimes we’re forced off our path. But there’s beauty in forging a new one.

So here’s to the brave ones who keep showing up. Who laugh in hospital gowns. Who writes musicals out of misery? Who rebuild themselves—one song, one step, one day at a time.

🎧 Catch the Full Episode Now
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📘 Grab Edward’s book: Cancer, Musical Theatre, & Other Chronic Illnesses
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Lead with Humility: Financial Vision, Purpose and Personal Growth (with Mitch Lomazov) Mirror Talk: Soulful Conversations

What does it take to build meaningful success without losing your humility, gratitude or sense of purpose?In this episode of Mirror Talk: Soulful Conversations, Tobi speaks with Mitch Lomazov, Executive Director of Finance at EXCELLence Performance, certified young-adult coach, trained public speaker and Fractional CFO.Mitch reflects on growing up as the son of immigrant parents and how discipline, hard work and personal responsibility shaped his journey. He shares honestly about fear, failure, rejection and the importance of acting even when confidence has not yet arrived.Together, we explore how intentional goal-setting, self-awareness and external accountability can help us move from potential to purposeful action. Mitch explains why goals must be connected to a meaningful “why,” how setbacks can become valuable teachers and why humility is one of the most important qualities in leadership.The conversation also moves into communication and behavioural finance. Mitch discusses where people often fall short when expressing themselves, how presence and active listening strengthen relationships and why financial strategies must account for human behaviour—not only numbers on a balance sheet.CHAPTERS00:00 Introduction00:45 Growing up with immigrant parents01:50 How discipline shaped Mitch’s journey03:10 Moving from accounting into coaching and personal development04:50 Balancing education, sales, speaking and coaching06:00 Power hours, time management and accountability07:20 Overcoming rejection and the fear of failure10:40 Turning fear into forward movement12:10 Learning to ask for opportunities13:00 Lessons from failure and setbacks16:00 Reflecting and growing through difficult experiences18:00 How to set challenging but realistic goals19:30 Finding a meaningful reason behind your goals21:00 Common goal-setting mistakes22:40 Reviewing progress and living intentionally24:15 Recognising the season of life you are in26:40 Why humility is essential for leadership30:30 Practising gratitude during difficult seasons33:20 The mountain-and-valley nature of success37:30 Discovering and developing your potential40:00 Building a trusted financial support team44:30 EXCELLence Performance and its services47:30 Turning knowledge into action48:30 Closing reflectionsMitch also introduces the work of EXCELLence Performance and explains how its coaching, leadership seminars and business-development services help individuals and organisations improve their performance.This conversation is an invitation to examine your fears, clarify your goals and take responsibility for the next step in your growth. You do not need to have everything figured out. You need the humility to learn, the courage to begin and the discipline to keep moving.Notable reflections:“Knowledge is potential power, but it means nothing until it is acted upon.”“Fear may always exist, but we can choose to act in spite of it.”“Success is a journey of mountains and valleys, not a straight ascent.”Connect with Mitch Lomazov:EXCELLence Performance: https://epcoaching.com/Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/zjAVPRt79C4 Listen, reflect and share this episode with someone who is working toward greater clarity, leadership and financial confidence.Subscribe to Mirror Talk: Soulful Conversations for more honest conversations about personal growth, purpose, spirituality, leadership, relationships and meaningful success.Try Aletheia today: https://aletheia.mirrortalkpodcast.com Ask what is on your heart. Mirror Talk will reflect back what may help you see more clearly. Try it here: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/ask-mirror-talk/Could you support us by becoming a Patreon? Please consider subscribing to one or more of our offerings at http://patreon.com/MirrorTalk All proceeds will help enhance the quality of our work and outreach, enabling us to serve you better.
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