What Surviving Cancer Taught Me About Living Fully – Edward Miskie’s Transformational Journey

What Surviving Cancer Taught Me About Living Fully – Edward Miskie's Transformational Journey

Ten years ago, Edward Miskie wasn’t planning to write a book. He wasn’t thinking about producing musicals or reflecting on life’s messiness with poetic clarity. He was just trying to stay alive.

Diagnosed in his twenties with a rare, aggressive cancer, Edward’s world stopped mid-scene—just as his Broadway dreams were finding centre stage. What followed wasn’t just a health crisis. It was a full-blown identity collapse, tangled in heartbreak, alcohol, creative blocks, and unanswered questions about who he was without the life he’d built.

“I didn’t just lose hair and weight,” Edward shared on Mirror Talk. “I lost myself.

His new memoir, Cancer, Musical Theatre, & Other Chronic Illnesses, is part fever dream, part therapy, part laugh-out-loud truth bomb. Through it—and in our conversation—Edward reminds us that surviving cancer isn’t just about beating the disease. It’s about confronting what’s been stripped away and daring to piece together a self you never expected to meet.

🧬 The Unexpected Diagnosis

Imagine being in your prime—full of ambition, charisma, and dreams—and then suddenly… cancer. Rare. Aggressive. Unrelenting.

Edward didn’t know what hit him. He describes the diagnosis as a surreal musical theatre number, complete with clumsy choreography and flat notes. Chemo came fast. So did the fear, the isolation, and the messy cocktail of emotions that no one prepares you for.

💔 Sex, Chemo, and Self-Erosion

One of the boldest chapters of Edward’s story is his candour about sex, alcohol, and intimacy during and after cancer.

“No one talks about what happens to you—your sexuality, your desires, your sense of worth—when your body becomes a battleground,” he said.

He describes the experience as being “divorced from himself,” a concept so haunting and relatable that it deserves its own sermon. Cancer stole more than just cells—it rewrote how he saw himself in the mirror.

🎭 The Healing Power of Storytelling

Edward didn’t stop at survival. He turned his story into art.

From producing shows to releasing a dance-pop album (Renaissancing), to now creating a musical episodic series based on his memoir, Edward transformed pain into purpose. His humor is his sword. His transparency, his shield.

💡 Lessons from the Edge of Life

Here are a few things cancer taught Edward:

  • Self-advocacy is non-negotiable. Speak up. Fight for your body, your sanity, your life.
  • You can’t go back. You’re not who you were before, and that’s okay. Embrace the new.
  • Joy is a medicine. Create it. Chase it. Let it light your darkest days.
  • Healing isn’t linear. Some days you dance. Some days you cry. It all belongs.
  • You’re allowed to laugh. Even when life feels like hell, humour helps you breathe again.

💬 For Anyone Facing Cancer…

Edward offers this simple but soul-shaking message:

“You don’t have to be strong all the time. But you do have to be you. Whoever that becomes.”

Whether you’re in treatment, in remission, or picking up the pieces post-diagnosis, know this: You are not alone. You are allowed to evolve. And you’re more than your illness.

🌱 Final Words: Keep Going, Even If It’s a Different Horse

In Edward’s words, “Get back on the horse—even if it’s a different horse.”

Sometimes we’re forced off our path. But there’s beauty in forging a new one.

So here’s to the brave ones who keep showing up. Who laugh in hospital gowns. Who writes musicals out of misery? Who rebuild themselves—one song, one step, one day at a time.

🎧 Catch the Full Episode Now
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📘 Grab Edward’s book: Cancer, Musical Theatre, & Other Chronic Illnesses
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Finding Connection in a Disconnected World: Keith Spurgin on Loneliness, Leadership, and Authentic Relationships Mirror Talk: Soulful Conversations

We are more connected than ever, yet loneliness continues to rise. In this deeply honest conversation, Keith Spurgin shares why visibility is not the same as being known, how disconnection silently shapes our identity, and what it takes to move relationships from lifeless to vibrant.Keith opens up about his own journey from internal disconnection to meaningful connection, revealing the subtle ways we tolerate relational emptiness while our souls quietly starve. Together, we explore leadership, vulnerability, emotional health, and why relational fitness matters just as much as physical fitness.This episode is an invitation to slow down, tell the truth, and take the small courageous steps that lead to genuine connection.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Connection and Disconnection04:24 Understanding the Nature of Disconnection09:18 The Illusion of Digital Connection11:56 The Importance of Self-Leadership16:23 Signs of a Dying Relationship21:31 Tolerating Toxic Behaviors26:42 Personal Journey of Disconnection33:16 The Impact of Relational Health38:12 Creating Authentic Connections in Families and Churches42:40 Practical Steps to Build Connections45:59 Living a Truly Connected LifeEpisode TakeawaysWe are more technologically connected than ever, yet more relationally disconnectedReal relationships require risk, honesty, and vulnerabilityPeople admire accomplishments but connect through shared strugglesTolerating emotional neglect quietly erodes the soulPain often becomes the doorway to transformationThe quality of life is directly tied to the quality of relationshipsForgiveness is essential for healing and reconnectionAuthentic leadership creates space for authentic relationshipsAbout Keith SpurginKeith Spurgin is an author, international speaker, leadership coach, and President of Growth Resourcing Group, an organisation dedicated to helping leaders, pastors, and business owners lead with clarity, courage, and connection.He is the founder of New Hope Church in Wylie, Texas, and the author of Unknown: Finding Connection in a Disconnected World. Keith is passionate about long term relationship building, transformational leadership, and helping people experience meaningful connection in every area of life.Website: https://keithspurgin.netYour transformation begins the moment you decide to look within.Let this book walk with you.👇 Get your copy:US/Intl: https://amzn.to/3Kk5wh4EU: https://amzn.to/48sFnG6Listen on your favourite podcast platform: ⁠https://lnkfi.re/mirrortalk⁠Don't forget to subscribe, rate, share, and comment. Thank you!CONFESSIONS is now available: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/confessions-book/ Thank you for joining me on this MIRROR TALK podcast journey. Please subscribe to any platform and remember to leave a review and rating.Stay connected: https://linktr.ee/mirrortalkpodcast More inspiring episodes and show notes are here: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/podcast-episodes/ Your opinions, thoughts, suggestions, and comments are important to us. Please share them here: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/your-opinion-matters/ Could you support us by becoming a Patreon? Please consider subscribing to one or more of our offerings at http://patreon.com/MirrorTalk All proceeds will help enhance the quality of our work and outreach, enabling us to serve you better.We use and trust these podcasting tools, software, and gear. We’ve partnered with amazing platforms to give our Mirror Talk community exclusive deals and discounts: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/best-podcasting-tools/
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