How Faith and Enneagram Lead to Healing

Know Yourself to Know God: How Faith, Identity, and the Enneagram Lead to Healing

What if knowing yourself more deeply was not self-centred, but sacred?

In this episode of Mirror Talk: Soulful Conversations, Heath Davis Havlick invites us into a compassionate exploration of faith, identity, and healing. As a Christian teacher and Enneagram guide, Heath shares how self-discovery can become a bridge to knowing God more intimately.

Her message is both grounding and liberating. You are not broken. You are becoming.

Faith Begins With Relationship, Not Perfection

Heath’s spiritual journey began early, accepting Jesus as a child. Yet her faith deepened not through rule-keeping, but through relationship. She reminds us that God desires connection, not compliance.

This truth alone reshapes how many approach Christianity, replacing fear with love and shame with belonging.

The Enneagram as a Tool for Christian Healing

Rather than reducing people to labels, Heath teaches the Enneagram as a mirror. One that reveals motivations, wounds, and unconscious patterns that block us from love.

Used wisely, the Enneagram helps uncover where we have forgotten who we are and where we have misunderstood God’s heart toward us.

From Pain to Sacred Transformation

Bullying, divorce, emotional disconnection. Heath does not bypass suffering. She honours it.

Through faith, self-reflection, and compassion, pain becomes a teacher. Healing becomes possible when we stop abandoning ourselves and allow God to meet us in truth.

Purpose Beyond Your Job Title

Many listeners will resonate with Heath’s honesty about living purposefully while working outside her calling. She reminds us that vocation is not confined to employment.

Purpose lives in how we love, listen, create, and serve wherever we are planted.

Compassion Changes Everything

When we understand ourselves, we soften toward others. Heath explains how the Enneagram fosters empathy, especially toward people who feel difficult or different.

Compassion, she teaches, is not weakness. It is spiritual maturity.

A Gentle Invitation

For anyone feeling lost, numb, or unsure of their purpose, Heath offers a simple starting point. Be still. Get curious. Ask yourself what you owe your soul.

From there, God does the rest.

Final Reflection

Knowing yourself does not lead you away from God. It leads you home.

This episode is an invitation to remember who you are, rest in God’s radical love, and live from your truest self.

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/9BbudoEQ0dI 


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Finding Connection in a Disconnected World: Keith Spurgin on Loneliness, Leadership, and Authentic Relationships Mirror Talk: Soulful Conversations

We are more connected than ever, yet loneliness continues to rise. In this deeply honest conversation, Keith Spurgin shares why visibility is not the same as being known, how disconnection silently shapes our identity, and what it takes to move relationships from lifeless to vibrant.Keith opens up about his own journey from internal disconnection to meaningful connection, revealing the subtle ways we tolerate relational emptiness while our souls quietly starve. Together, we explore leadership, vulnerability, emotional health, and why relational fitness matters just as much as physical fitness.This episode is an invitation to slow down, tell the truth, and take the small courageous steps that lead to genuine connection.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Connection and Disconnection04:24 Understanding the Nature of Disconnection09:18 The Illusion of Digital Connection11:56 The Importance of Self-Leadership16:23 Signs of a Dying Relationship21:31 Tolerating Toxic Behaviors26:42 Personal Journey of Disconnection33:16 The Impact of Relational Health38:12 Creating Authentic Connections in Families and Churches42:40 Practical Steps to Build Connections45:59 Living a Truly Connected LifeEpisode TakeawaysWe are more technologically connected than ever, yet more relationally disconnectedReal relationships require risk, honesty, and vulnerabilityPeople admire accomplishments but connect through shared strugglesTolerating emotional neglect quietly erodes the soulPain often becomes the doorway to transformationThe quality of life is directly tied to the quality of relationshipsForgiveness is essential for healing and reconnectionAuthentic leadership creates space for authentic relationshipsAbout Keith SpurginKeith Spurgin is an author, international speaker, leadership coach, and President of Growth Resourcing Group, an organisation dedicated to helping leaders, pastors, and business owners lead with clarity, courage, and connection.He is the founder of New Hope Church in Wylie, Texas, and the author of Unknown: Finding Connection in a Disconnected World. Keith is passionate about long term relationship building, transformational leadership, and helping people experience meaningful connection in every area of life.Website: https://keithspurgin.netYour transformation begins the moment you decide to look within.Let this book walk with you.👇 Get your copy:US/Intl: https://amzn.to/3Kk5wh4EU: https://amzn.to/48sFnG6Listen on your favourite podcast platform: ⁠https://lnkfi.re/mirrortalk⁠Don't forget to subscribe, rate, share, and comment. Thank you!CONFESSIONS is now available: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/confessions-book/ Thank you for joining me on this MIRROR TALK podcast journey. Please subscribe to any platform and remember to leave a review and rating.Stay connected: https://linktr.ee/mirrortalkpodcast More inspiring episodes and show notes are here: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/podcast-episodes/ Your opinions, thoughts, suggestions, and comments are important to us. Please share them here: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/your-opinion-matters/ Could you support us by becoming a Patreon? Please consider subscribing to one or more of our offerings at http://patreon.com/MirrorTalk All proceeds will help enhance the quality of our work and outreach, enabling us to serve you better.We use and trust these podcasting tools, software, and gear. We’ve partnered with amazing platforms to give our Mirror Talk community exclusive deals and discounts: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/best-podcasting-tools/
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