Deep Waters: The Beauty Beneath the Surface

Deep Waters: The Beauty Beneath the Surface

Deep Waters: What the World Doesn’t See Is Where You Are Becoming

We live in a world that celebrates visibility.

Photos. Milestones. Announcements. Achievement.

But beneath all that surface shine… is the real story.

The story of deep waters.

Like an iceberg, only 10% of who we are is visible to the world. The other 90%?
Unseen. Unspoken. Often misunderstood.

But it’s in that 90%—in the pressure, in the stillness, in the soul storms—that transformation happens.

🌊 The Still Surface Can Be Deceiving

Just because someone looks calm doesn’t mean they aren’t carrying weight.

Still waters are not empty waters.

The colleague who always smiles may be battling anxiety.
The friend who never asks for help might be drowning in silence.
The person who keeps showing up… might be doing so through tears.

And maybe—that person is you.

🌱 Growth Happens in the Shadows

The most powerful changes in life are often invisible.

Healing. Forgiveness. Letting go. Rebuilding your self-worth.

They don’t come with applause. There are no medals for showing up to therapy.
No parades for cutting off toxic cycles.
No standing ovation for surviving what nearly broke you.

But that doesn’t make it any less heroic.

💎 Pressure Creates Diamonds

The deep waters of life are where we become.

The heartbreak you’re healing from.
The dream you’re quietly nurturing.
The version of you no one claps for—yet.

It all matters.

Don’t rush to the surface.
Don’t chase validation.

Your iceberg is rising.
And when it breaks through, it will carry the weight and wisdom of all that you’ve survived beneath it.

🧘🏽‍♀️ Be Kind—To Yourself and Others

Remember, everyone is carrying something invisible.

So lead with compassion.
Speak gently.
And most importantly, be soft with yourself.

You are not behind.

You are becoming.

And becoming is sacred work.

Still waters run deep.
And so do you.

💭 Reflective Journal Prompts:

  • What’s currently happening beneath the surface in your life that no one sees?
  • How can you honor your invisible growth today?
  • Where have you mistaken stillness for stagnation?

📩 Was this post meaningful to you?
Share it with a friend who’s navigating deep waters—and remind them they’re not alone.

🌀 Mirror Talk: Soulful Conversations — Where We Reflect, Heal, and Grow.

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Know Yourself to Know God: Enneagram, Identity, and Christian Healing with Heath Davis Havlick Mirror Talk: Soulful Conversations

What if self-discovery were not self-focused, but sacred?In this deeply reflective episode of Mirror Talk: Soulful Conversations, host Tobi Ojekunle sits down with speaker, author, and Riso-Hudson Certified Enneagram Teacher Heath Davis Havlick to explore the profound connection between identity, faith, and healing.Heath shares her journey of Christian faith, emotional healing, and spiritual formation, revealing how the Enneagram can serve as a compassionate tool for understanding ourselves and others through the lens of God’s love. This conversation invites listeners to move beyond performance-based faith and into a lived experience of grace, presence, and purpose.In this episode, you will learn:Why knowing yourself is essential to knowing GodHow the Enneagram supports Christian spiritual formationHow pain can become a doorway to healingHow to live your purpose even when passion and profession differHow compassion grows through self-understandingChapters00:00 Introduction to Heath Davis Havlick03:45 The Journey of Faith and Identity09:04 Understanding God's Love and Personal Growth18:09 The Enneagram: A Tool for Self-Discovery27:18 Balancing Purpose and Professional Life34:03 Final Thoughts on Love and PurposeThis episode is for anyone longing for deeper faith, clarity of identity, and a gentler way home to themselves.🔗 Connect with Heath Davis HavlickWebsite: https://heathdavishavlick.com🎙️ Hosted by Tobi OjekunleMirror Talk: Soulful ConversationsYour transformation begins the moment you decide to look within.Let this book walk with you.👇 Get your copy:US/Intl: https://amzn.to/3Kk5wh4EU: https://amzn.to/48sFnG6Listen on your favourite podcast platform: ⁠https://lnkfi.re/mirrortalk⁠Don't forget to subscribe, rate, share, and comment. Thank you!CONFESSIONS is now available: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/confessions-book/ Thank you for joining me on this MIRROR TALK podcast journey. Please subscribe to any platform and remember to leave a review and rating.Stay connected: https://linktr.ee/mirrortalkpodcast More inspiring episodes and show notes are here: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/podcast-episodes/ Your opinions, thoughts, suggestions, and comments are important to us. Please share them here: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/your-opinion-matters/ Could you support us by becoming a Patreon? Please consider subscribing to one or more of our offerings at http://patreon.com/MirrorTalk All proceeds will help enhance the quality of our work and outreach, enabling us to serve you better.We use and trust these podcasting tools, software, and gear. We’ve partnered with amazing platforms to give our Mirror Talk community exclusive deals and discounts: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/mirror-talks-recommended-podcasting-tools-exclusive-discounts/ 
  1. Know Yourself to Know God: Enneagram, Identity, and Christian Healing with Heath Davis Havlick
  2. Living the Life Your Soul Intended: Soul Truths on Healing, Purpose, Faith, and Becoming
  3. Joy Is the Medicine: How Play, Purpose, and Presence Heal the Soul with Amy Dickens
  4. The Ripple Effect: How Small Choices Create Lasting Hope
  5. How Self Love and Forgiveness Awaken Authentic Power: Fix Your Reflection First with Rhonda Farrah

CONFESSIONS is now available: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/confessions-book/ 

Thank you for joining me on this MIRROR TALK podcast journey. Please subscribe on any platform and remember to leave a review and rating.

Stay connected: https://linktr.ee/mirrortalkpodcast 

More inspiring episodes and show notes are here: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/podcast-episodes/ 

Your opinions, thoughts, suggestions, and comments are important to us. Share them here: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/your-opinion-matters/ 

Support us by becoming a Patron. Please consider subscribing to one or more of our offerings at http://patreon.com/MirrorTalk 

All proceeds will help improve the quality of our work and outreach, so we can serve you better.

These are some of the podcasting tools, software, and gear we use and trust — and we’ve partnered with amazing platforms to give our Mirror Talk community exclusive deals and discounts: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/mirror-talks-recommended-podcasting-tools-exclusive-discounts/ 

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