Deep Waters: The Beauty Beneath the Surface

Deep Waters: The Beauty Beneath the Surface

Deep Waters: What the World Doesn’t See Is Where You Are Becoming

We live in a world that celebrates visibility.

Photos. Milestones. Announcements. Achievement.

But beneath all that surface shine… is the real story.

The story of deep waters.

Like an iceberg, only 10% of who we are is visible to the world. The other 90%?
Unseen. Unspoken. Often misunderstood.

But it’s in that 90%—in the pressure, in the stillness, in the soul storms—that transformation happens.

🌊 The Still Surface Can Be Deceiving

Just because someone looks calm doesn’t mean they aren’t carrying weight.

Still waters are not empty waters.

The colleague who always smiles may be battling anxiety.
The friend who never asks for help might be drowning in silence.
The person who keeps showing up… might be doing so through tears.

And maybe—that person is you.

🌱 Growth Happens in the Shadows

The most powerful changes in life are often invisible.

Healing. Forgiveness. Letting go. Rebuilding your self-worth.

They don’t come with applause. There are no medals for showing up to therapy.
No parades for cutting off toxic cycles.
No standing ovation for surviving what nearly broke you.

But that doesn’t make it any less heroic.

💎 Pressure Creates Diamonds

The deep waters of life are where we become.

The heartbreak you’re healing from.
The dream you’re quietly nurturing.
The version of you no one claps for—yet.

It all matters.

Don’t rush to the surface.
Don’t chase validation.

Your iceberg is rising.
And when it breaks through, it will carry the weight and wisdom of all that you’ve survived beneath it.

🧘🏽‍♀️ Be Kind—To Yourself and Others

Remember, everyone is carrying something invisible.

So lead with compassion.
Speak gently.
And most importantly, be soft with yourself.

You are not behind.

You are becoming.

And becoming is sacred work.

Still waters run deep.
And so do you.

💭 Reflective Journal Prompts:

  • What’s currently happening beneath the surface in your life that no one sees?
  • How can you honor your invisible growth today?
  • Where have you mistaken stillness for stagnation?

📩 Was this post meaningful to you?
Share it with a friend who’s navigating deep waters—and remind them they’re not alone.

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Finding Connection in a Disconnected World: Keith Spurgin on Loneliness, Leadership, and Authentic Relationships Mirror Talk: Soulful Conversations

We are more connected than ever, yet loneliness continues to rise. In this deeply honest conversation, Keith Spurgin shares why visibility is not the same as being known, how disconnection silently shapes our identity, and what it takes to move relationships from lifeless to vibrant.Keith opens up about his own journey from internal disconnection to meaningful connection, revealing the subtle ways we tolerate relational emptiness while our souls quietly starve. Together, we explore leadership, vulnerability, emotional health, and why relational fitness matters just as much as physical fitness.This episode is an invitation to slow down, tell the truth, and take the small courageous steps that lead to genuine connection.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Connection and Disconnection04:24 Understanding the Nature of Disconnection09:18 The Illusion of Digital Connection11:56 The Importance of Self-Leadership16:23 Signs of a Dying Relationship21:31 Tolerating Toxic Behaviors26:42 Personal Journey of Disconnection33:16 The Impact of Relational Health38:12 Creating Authentic Connections in Families and Churches42:40 Practical Steps to Build Connections45:59 Living a Truly Connected LifeEpisode TakeawaysWe are more technologically connected than ever, yet more relationally disconnectedReal relationships require risk, honesty, and vulnerabilityPeople admire accomplishments but connect through shared strugglesTolerating emotional neglect quietly erodes the soulPain often becomes the doorway to transformationThe quality of life is directly tied to the quality of relationshipsForgiveness is essential for healing and reconnectionAuthentic leadership creates space for authentic relationshipsAbout Keith SpurginKeith Spurgin is an author, international speaker, leadership coach, and President of Growth Resourcing Group, an organisation dedicated to helping leaders, pastors, and business owners lead with clarity, courage, and connection.He is the founder of New Hope Church in Wylie, Texas, and the author of Unknown: Finding Connection in a Disconnected World. Keith is passionate about long term relationship building, transformational leadership, and helping people experience meaningful connection in every area of life.Website: https://keithspurgin.netYour transformation begins the moment you decide to look within.Let this book walk with you.👇 Get your copy:US/Intl: https://amzn.to/3Kk5wh4EU: https://amzn.to/48sFnG6Listen on your favourite podcast platform: ⁠https://lnkfi.re/mirrortalk⁠Don't forget to subscribe, rate, share, and comment. Thank you!CONFESSIONS is now available: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/confessions-book/ Thank you for joining me on this MIRROR TALK podcast journey. Please subscribe to any platform and remember to leave a review and rating.Stay connected: https://linktr.ee/mirrortalkpodcast More inspiring episodes and show notes are here: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/podcast-episodes/ Your opinions, thoughts, suggestions, and comments are important to us. Please share them here: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/your-opinion-matters/ Could you support us by becoming a Patreon? Please consider subscribing to one or more of our offerings at http://patreon.com/MirrorTalk All proceeds will help enhance the quality of our work and outreach, enabling us to serve you better.We use and trust these podcasting tools, software, and gear. We’ve partnered with amazing platforms to give our Mirror Talk community exclusive deals and discounts: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/best-podcasting-tools/
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CONFESSIONS is now available: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/confessions-book/ 

Thank you for joining me on this MIRROR TALK podcast journey. Please subscribe on any platform and remember to leave a review and rating.

Stay connected: https://linktr.ee/mirrortalkpodcast 

More inspiring episodes and show notes are here: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/podcast-episodes/ 

Your opinions, thoughts, suggestions, and comments are important to us. Share them here: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/your-opinion-matters/ 

Support us by becoming a Patron. Please consider subscribing to one or more of our offerings at http://patreon.com/MirrorTalk 

All proceeds will help improve the quality of our work and outreach, so we can serve you better.

These are some of the podcasting tools, software, and gear we use and trust — and we’ve partnered with amazing platforms to give our Mirror Talk community exclusive deals and discounts: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/mirror-talks-recommended-podcasting-tools-exclusive-discounts/ 

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