Financial Alignment Over Success

Financial Alignment Over Success

Discover how financial alignment creates true wealth. Julie Murphy shares the PACT method, money mindset shifts, and emotional wellness for freedom. In a world obsessed with hustle, achievement, and external success, many high achievers quietly carry an uncomfortable truth. On paper, everything looks perfect. The income is high. The career is impressive. The lifestyle is enviable.

Yet inside, something feels off.

In this soulful episode of Mirror Talk: Soulful Conversations, we explore that exact tension with Julie Murphy, a financial planner and emotional wellness advocate with nearly 30 years of experience in money behaviour and financial alignment.

Julie has managed over half a billion dollars in assets. She has worked with CEOs, entrepreneurs, and professionals who seemingly made it. And yet, the deeper pattern she kept seeing was this: Success without alignment leads to burnout.

What Is Financial Alignment?

Financial alignment is the state where your money reflects your inner truth, not your fear, conditioning, or social expectations.

It is when:

  • Your financial goals match your values
  • Your spending supports your wellbeing
  • Your wealth feels like freedom, not pressure
  • Your decisions feel peaceful, not reactive

Julie explains that most people are not actually chasing money. They are chasing safety, approval, or self-worth.

Money simply becomes the mirror.

The Hidden Emotional Side of Money

One of the most powerful insights Julie shares is that money is never just about numbers. It is deeply emotional.

Our financial habits are shaped by:

  • Childhood beliefs
  • Family conditioning
  • Cultural expectations
  • Fear of disappointing others
  • Fear of not being enough

This is why two people with the same income can experience completely different financial realities. One feels abundant and grounded. The other feels anxious and trapped.

The difference is not money.

The difference is mindset and emotional alignment.

The PACT Method: A New Model for Financial Freedom

Julie created the PACT Method to help people transform their relationship with money without blowing up their lives.

PACT stands for:

Picture

Clarify what you actually want. Not what you were told to want. Not what looks good on Instagram. What your soul wants.

Accept

Acknowledge your current reality without shame. Where are you now financially and emotionally?

Commit

Decide to choose alignment over autopilot. This is where self-leadership begins.

Take Action

Small, intentional steps that support your future self, not your fear.

This method allows people to shift direction gently but powerfully. It replaces pressure with presence.

Burn the Plan, Keep the Purpose

One of the most resonant phrases Julie shares is:

Burn the plan, keep the purpose.

So many people cling to outdated financial goals simply because they invested years into them. The house, the job, the title, the retirement number.

But if the plan no longer fits who you are becoming, it becomes a cage.

Purpose evolves. Identity evolves. And your financial life must evolve with you.

Money Mirrors the Mind

Julie teaches that money is energy. It reflects your inner narrative.

If you believe:

  • You are not enough, you will overwork
  • You must prove yourself, you will overspend
  • You cannot trust life, you will hoard
  • You must please others, you will self-betray

When you heal your inner story, your financial behaviour changes naturally.

Not through discipline.

Through alignment.

From Hustle to Harmony

One of the most liberating messages in this conversation is that financial freedom does not require exhaustion.

Julie believes that five-year financial freedom is possible when:

  • You stop chasing external validation
  • You define success on your own terms
  • You prioritise emotional wellness
  • You allow intuition into decision-making
  • You lead your life like a CEO of your own vision

Not a CEO of productivity. A CEO of alignment.

Spirituality and Financial Sovereignty

Julie also brings spirituality into finance in a grounded and practical way.

She sees wealth as a relationship with:

  • Trust
  • Self-worth
  • Energy
  • Conscious choice

When spirituality enters money, fear leaves.

You stop asking:
How do I get more?

And start asking:
Who am I becoming?

The Real Gold Is You

Perhaps the most powerful truth Julie leaves us with is this:

You are the gold you are searching for.

Money does not create worth. It reveals it.

When you feel whole, aligned, and grounded, your financial life becomes a reflection of that inner state.

Not perfect.
Not performative.
But peaceful.

And that is real wealth.


Connect with Julie Murphy

Website: juliemurphy.com
Instagram: @awakenwithjulie


Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/EpBQmpbnjP0 


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Love Over Ego with Freddy Jackson: Finding Purpose, Authenticity and Inner Freedom Mirror Talk: Soulful Conversations

What if the greatest battle in your life is not external… but internal?In this deeply transformative episode of Mirror Talk: Soulful Conversations, we sit down with transformational speaker, educator, certified health coach, and founder of The Love No Ego Foundation, Freddy Jackson.From chasing collegiate basketball dreams to confronting personal failures and rebuilding through faith, humility, and growth, Freddy’s journey is a powerful reminder that ego may be loud, but love is stronger.Together, we explore:• What it truly means to live Love Over Ego• How to recognise when ego is driving your decisions• Why suffering is optional even when pain is inevitable• The four pillars that ground Freddy’s life: spirituality, exercise, education, and community• How Social Emotional Learning builds resilience in young people• Why stillness and silence are necessary for authentic growth• The courage it takes to be yourself in a performance-driven worldChapters00:00 Introduction to Love No Ego02:24 Practices for Staying Present04:40 Wild Card Game: Getting to Know Freddie09:05 Passion and Purpose11:28 Defining the Journey: Love No Ego13:54 Understanding Ego and Its Impact17:49 Reprogramming the Mind21:30 The Power of Stillness and Presence26:08 The Pursuit of Happiness and Fulfilment27:09 Letting Go and Minimalism29:00 Living with Purpose and Authenticity33:21 Understanding Love and Its Essence35:01 Challenges of Community and Connection38:22 Building Inner Resilience in a Chaotic World46:41 The Courage to Be Yourself49:59 The Mission of Love No-Ego FoundationFreddy shares practical wisdom on mindfulness, self-discovery, minimalism, and the daily discipline of choosing love over pride, fear, or validation.If you are navigating identity pressure, seeking purpose, or craving inner clarity, this conversation will meet you exactly where you are.This is not about perfection.It is about alignment.It is about choosing love over ego.🔗 Connect with Freddy and learn more about The Love No Ego Foundation: https://www.mrlovenoego.orgAsk what is on your heart. Mirror Talk will reflect back what may help you see more clearly. Try it here: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/ask-mirror-talk/Thank you for joining me on this MIRROR TALK podcast journey. Please subscribe to any platform and remember to leave a review and rating.Stay connected: https://linktr.ee/mirrortalkpodcast More inspiring episodes and show notes are here: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/podcast-episodes/ Your opinions, thoughts, suggestions, and comments are important to us. Please share them here: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/your-opinion-matters/ Could you support us by becoming a Patreon? Please consider subscribing to one or more of our offerings at http://patreon.com/MirrorTalk All proceeds will help enhance the quality of our work and outreach, enabling us to serve you better.We use and trust these podcasting tools, software, and gear. We’ve partnered with amazing platforms to give our Mirror Talk community exclusive deals and discounts: https://mirrortalkpodcast.com/best-podcasting-tools/
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